While no two homes are exactly the same, neither are the journeys of home buyers. How you get from the open house to the housewarming party is unique to your financial needs and your comfort level.
“Not everybody’s situation is the same, but there are some things everyone should look for during the home-buying experience,” says Jeremy Seldon, vice president of Residential Real Estate for Thrivent Credit Union. “That starts with a team that will guide you and focus on what’s most important to your needs and wants, and not just on interest rates and closing costs.”
Planning on buying a home? Here’s what you should consider.
Intentionally choose your team
Unless you already have a realtor you know and trust, it’s best to start your home buying journey by talking to a representative from a mortgage lender. Why? They’ll be able to walk you through the process of buying the home you want. Plus, a lender will be more focused on your ability to pay your mortgage rather than the cost of the property.
“I would advise you to talk to a lender and get educated on what a mortgage looks like,” Seldon says. “You’ll also want to talk to a financial advisor in advance about what makes sense based on your goals.”
Jeremy and Victoria Pollard in Charlotte, North Carolina, originally came to
“That was just a major lift for us,” says Jeremy Pollard, who also cited the credit union’s competitive interest rates. “I don’t know of another bank that would do that.”
Decide what you’re comfortable paying
Beyond lenders’ standard underwriting guidelines, there’s no secret behind determining what home you can and cannot afford. It all comes down to what you’re comfortable with financially.
Karen Gajeski, senior vice president of Mortgage Banking with Thrivent Credit Union, says to look at the past two or three months of your income and expenses, including committed debt payments, to see what you can free up for a mortgage payment.
Seldon asks clients to start by estimating a monthly payment they feel comfortable with based on their cash flow. Then he asks if he can add $100 to that. Then a little more. Then he can establish a buyer’s price range and help them find a home that falls within their comfort level. This is often a different number than the amount for which they are qualified or approved. You want to pay attention to the number you are comfortable paying.
“I’ll find out where [an applicant’s] ceiling is on their comfortability. And once I’ve found their ceiling … that’s where I’ll start,” he says. “Then we can back into a mortgage and then a purchase price.”
There are other factors to consider. First, what are your goals? Your income may change or be allocated elsewhere if you foresee a career change or promotion, or if you want to grow your family. Plus, your total payments will be based on things like your interest rate, taxes, insurance and the length of your mortgage, traditionally 15 or 30 years.
It’s important to balance your payment with your financial priorities. When the Pollards bought their first and second homes, they wanted shorter 15-year mortgages and larger payments because they were focused on building equity. Going through the home purchase process for a third time, the Pollards wanted lower monthly payments for better control of their available resources to better maintain and improve the house.
“We’re really happy we got short-term fixed mortgages where we were making the biggest payments we could,” Victoria says. “[With this home,] we’re giving ourselves some breathing room with the payments.”
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1. Grow your savings
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3. Prepare to sell your home
If you’re selling a home to buy a new one, Gajeski says finding a realtor you trust and who is knowledgeable about your neighborhood will be key to walking you through the process and getting true-to-market value for your home. Also, you should expect to give up roughly 7% to10% of your home’s value through realtor fees, closing costs, deed transfer and other fees when it sells.
4. Compare interest rates
Rates often will vary from borrower to borrower based on many factors, from your credit score, the amount of down payment, or the type of home you want to buy. There are many mortgage lenders today, which means you can shop around to find the best
5. Decide fixed vs. adjustable
Whether you want a fixed-rate mortgage or an adjustable-rate mortgage (ARM) comes down to factors like how long you plan to have the loan. For example, if your home is a shorter-term purchase or you plan to pay off the mortgage quickly, an ARM will have a lower introductory interest rate.
6. Look at taxes
Mortgage interest may be written off in your taxes, Gajeski says, but that isn’t going to be useful for home buyers filing with a standard deduction. Talk with your Thrivent financial advisor and a tax accountant on factoring in property taxes or tax strategies into your financial plan.
Make your offer competitive
Many potential home buyers may have heard “we’re in a seller’s market.” That’s the case when demand for homes is high and the
In a seller’s market, there are strategies to make your offer more competitive. You may need to go above the asking price to compete with other offers, for example. Seldon strongly recommends getting a pre-approval letter that says you’ve been pre-approved for a home loan.
“It’s going to set you up to make a strong offer because the seller wants to know the buyer can actually get a loan,” he says. “Realtors also want to know if their buyers can actually get financing. And finally, it lets the realtor know your upper limit for purchasing a home. You can set your pre-approval dollar amount with your bank if you’ve determined the top amount you are comfortable with.”
If your offer on a new home is contingent on the sale of your current home, that may put you at a disadvantage compared to buyers with noncontingent offers. There are options like a cash-out refinancing that may help you make a cash offer, which is desirable for the seller. To make your offer even more competitive, you may consider giving up some concessions, such as a home inspection contingency.
Remember: While navigating the home buying journey takes time, putting in the proper planning will ensure you find a home that’s right for you and your financial plan.
Dos and don’ts for first-time home buyers
- Do get pre-approved. A pre-approval letter from a mortgage lender will boost the chances that your offer on a home will be accepted.
- Don’t get hung up on the idea of paying private mortgage insurance (PMI), which is required with a down payment less than 20%. If a huge down payment wipes out all your savings, a smaller down payment may actually be a better financial option to keep emergency savings available. Plus, it’s temporary.
- Do monitor your credit. Your credit score is an important factor in determining interest rates, so keep tabs on it. Be aware that while soft credit inquiries like estimates or pre-approvals do not influence your credit score, more hard credit inquiries, like when you apply for a loan, can have a small impact.
- Don’t forget the adage “location, location, location.” Factors like neighborhood, walkability and views will change over time and significantly affect a home’s price—and resale value.
- Do understand the full financial picture of the loan estimates you receive from a lender by reviewing both rates and fees. It’s best to make your comparisons before starting a loan application. Be cautious of authorizing a credit check too many times, as it will affect your credit score.
- Don’t rush through it. You can only control how much you buy your home for, but not how much you sell it for, which is subject to swings in the market. Be thoughtful about your decision.
How Thrivent can help
Whether it’s time to buy or sell your home, the mortgage lending team at Thrivent Credit Union can help. Team members focus on finding out what’s most important to your needs and offer trusted advice based on your holistic picture. They will work to create a home buying team for you, with your
Thrivent Credit Union lends in all 50 states and works with Prime Alliance Real Estate Services, LLC to connect Thrivent clients with highly qualified local realtors, to purchase and/or sell a property.
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