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Living on one income: Tips for families before making the leap

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Even when you have a fulfilling career, life is about so much more than work. The time crunch of two full-time careers may lead couples to wonder if—and how—they can live on one income, especially if they have young children or other hefty responsibilities.

Becoming a single-income family can introduce a need for careful spending, but it also frees up valuable time for managing the household, spending time with your children or taking care of family members. It also can remove the expense and mental burden of finding and paying for quality childcare and other assistance.

The ideal way to shift from two incomes to one is with a clear idea of what you want to accomplish and a firm financial footing. Taking these steps could lead to a purposeful and joyful transition, grounded in what matters most to you.

Fill in the budget gaps

While you're looking at the potential gains of one person giving up a paid job, you also have to keep the financial realities in mind. You'll want to revamp your spending plan to fit your single-income budget and anticipate how benefits or coverage might shift.

Some questions to tackle include:

  • Will you need to change your health insurance when one person leaves their job? This could result in different coverage, higher premiums and higher out-of-pocket expenses, so ensure you're including these extra costs in your budget.
  • Do you expect to face new expenses this year (i.e., a new baby, education costs, etc.)? Factor in buffer room to cover additional expenses that come with lifestyle changes.
  • Should you refinance or alter debt payments or regular bills? While this may help you decrease spending on a monthly basis, also consider how this would impact any debt repayment long-term, in terms of interest and timeframe. In certain cases, it could be more advantageous to make a big push on any high-interest debt before switching to a single income.
  • Can you forgo convenience costs or other lifestyle choices in favor of budgeting elsewhere? Depending on your circumstances, you could consider more budget-conscious meals, fewer transportation costs and fewer paid home care services like housecleaning or yard work.

Start adding essential expenses to a budget and see where a less expensive alternative might be possible or necessary. It could be helpful to start by using a budgeting app, such as Mint. If becoming a one-income household is further down the road, you can use the next few months as a "test run," saving as much as you can while you still have a second income. The more changes you make gradually, the less shocking it will be to develop your new single-income habits.

"Learn to be content with less," says Heidi Spence, coach with Thrivent's Money Canvas program. "This requires intentionally prioritizing expenses that put the household in alignment with your values and reminding yourself of the benefits of a one-income family."

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Prepare for risks with emergency savings

Switching to a single income isn't without risks, and any safety nets you build in can go a long way. An emergency savings account, for instance, can help single-income families plan for the unexpected. If the earner in your family loses their job or become disabled, your single income source could drop to zero. Having some accessible funds at the ready—ideally about three to six months of living expenses—can add stability amid any potential setbacks. Plus, if you need to adapt your budget along the way, these saved dollars can help you fill the gap instead of adding debt.

Gain protection with disability insurance & life insurance

On top of your emergency fund, disability insurance and life insurance also could serve as financial fallbacks if something were to happen to the single earner in your family. You may opt to purchase protection for the stay-at-home partner's contributions to the family as well. Some companies offer stay-at-home spouse disability insurance policies, recognizing the immense value and hard work of managing a household.

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Consider how this changes your future goals & timeline

While you're working out the best financial strategy for your single-income household, you and your family still have future needs to consider. For instance:

Realistically, single-income households often bring in less money, which can mean slower savings toward college education, retirement and charitable donations. You'll need to balance the potential payoff of a single-income lifestyle now with what it means for your family in the long run.

"Deciding early to live off one income while still being a two-income family can help households prepare for the transition a one-income family in the future," Spence says.

Perhaps there are just too many financial priorities given the amount of your single income. That doesn't mean you absolutely must remain a dual-earner family. There's more than one vision of an income-earning household. You may find you're happiest with essentially a "1.5 income" household, where one partner finds additional income sources that aren't as time-consuming as a 40-hour workweek. Perhaps this looks like passive income, like taking on a renter, or finding part-time work. For others, the financial realities may prompt the single earner to pursue promotions or apply for better-paying work.

Some families envision living on one income merely as a temporary measure. If you add in a side job, switch back to two full-time incomes or have other changes to your income stream, check in with your big-picture plans and readjust.

FAQs

How do we decide which partner should stop working?

The decision often comes down to income, benefits and personal goals. Compare each partner’s salary, health insurance, retirement contributions and job stability. Also consider factors like job satisfaction, career trajectory and family priorities. The choice will ideally balance finances with what works best for your household’s long-term well-being.

How can we practice living on one income before making the switch?

A good strategy is to live for several months on just one partner’s income while saving the other. This helps you test whether your budget is realistic and gives you a financial cushion. It’s a practical way to identify spending adjustments before making the change permanent.

What are the tax implications of becoming a single-income household?

Shifting to one income may change your tax bracket and affect deductions or credits. Filing jointly can sometimes lower your overall tax liability, but it depends on your situation. It’s wise to consult a tax professional to understand how your household’s tax picture will change before making the decision.

Will we still be able to qualify for a mortgage or refinance with one income?

Yes, but lenders will base qualification on the remaining income. This could reduce the loan amount you’re approved for. Having strong credit, manageable debt and a solid savings cushion will improve your chances of qualifying for favorable terms.

How can the stay-at-home partner keep their skills or career current?

Staying engaged through part-time work, freelancing, continuing education or volunteering can help maintain skills and keep a résumé active. Networking and staying connected with professional contacts also make it easier to return to the workforce if desired later.

A partner for living your values

It takes courage to center your life on what's important to you first and then figure out how your finances support that plan. It's certainly not an easy decision and may not be the right move for everyone. For such a big life change, ensure you and your spouse have considered the arrangement from all perspectives.

"Family members need to dig deep to understand their top 3 values and create a unified vision for intentional living," says Mana Abdullahi, Money Canvas coach.

A financial advisor can help you see what a single-income household means for you and your family from a financial perspective. Even when you feel like you've talked through all the possible scenarios, a financial advisor can uncover additional important considerations. They can help you prioritize your goals and make the most of what you've been given, all while making sound strategic choices for long-term financial clarity.

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